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May 21, 2007

Secret Anniversary

Today is Seraphic Secret's third anniversary. This was our first post:


Thinking of Ariel...

Several months ago, my beloved son Ariel Chaim passed away. I am forever changed. I will write about him, about loss and memory for as long as I can.

Seraphic Secret has changed our lives. We have made scores of precious new friends, numerous acquaintances, and through your kindness and generosity we have been able to share our memories, grief, and joy. You who read and touch our lives have given us a measure of comfort we never imagined, and for this Karen and I owe you all a great debt of gratitude.

A special thanks to our good friend and blogmother Jackie Danicki who first suggested this blog and put us on-line. Without Jackie, we would not be here.

Posted by Robert J. Avrech at May 21, 2007 03:45 PM

Comments

Seraphic Secret is private property, that's right, it's an extension of our home, and as such, Karen and I have instituted two Seraphic Rules and we ask commentors to act respectfully.

1. No profanity.

2. No Israel bashing. We debate, we discuss, we are respectful. You know what Israel bashing is. The world is full of it. Seraphic Secret is one of the few places in the world that will not tolerate this form of anti-Semitism.

That's it. Break either of these rules and you will be banned.

The Seraph/


With wings widespread/

wrapping you in their eternal warmth/

the seraph whispers to you,/

"I have secrets I want you to share."/


And you do...

Thank you, Robert & Karen, for having allowed us into your world over these past three years and sharing Seraphic Secret(s) with us.

Posted by: pearl at May 21, 2007 06:37 PM

Pearl:

You're welcome; and thank you for your warm and generous friendship.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 21, 2007 07:11 PM

Congratulations and Mazel tov on the anniversary. I've read that first post of yours several times and it always brings tears to my eyes. Hashem should give you and your wife strength to overcome and to be strong.

Have a good Yom Tov

Posted by: Avrohom Adler at May 21, 2007 08:17 PM

I am very happy to have been able to share in Seraphic Secret with you, Karen and everyone else.

Posted by: Jack at May 21, 2007 10:15 PM

Seraphic Secret has changed my life. So thank you for allowing me to be affected by sharing stories about the life that Ariel z"l led and the legacy that he has left behind. May Hashem give you and Karen the strength to keep moving forward and to some degree find comfort through this.

Posted by: nl at May 21, 2007 11:35 PM

Avrohom:

Thanks so much for the kind words. Please know that we enjoy learning Daf from your fine blog.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 12:57 AM

Jack:

We share the same feelings about you. Hope to meet you face to face very soon.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 01:00 AM

Ni:

Readers like you have changed our lives—for the better. Thanks so much for the chizuk. May we all know simchas together.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 01:03 AM

I remember that right before Ariel passed away someone put his name on a Rofeh Cholim list in Baltimore. I don't think I realized at the time that he was learning in Ner Yisrael; I thought he was learning at YU.

As you know you've been an inspiration to a my friend. So by blogging you have helped others too. I hope that helps to serve as a nechama to you and your family.

Good Yom Tov.

Posted by: soccerdad [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 05:53 AM

I've just found your blog recently (through Pearl) and have been reading through your posts from the beginning. What an amazing "road" you have been on. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.

Posted by: orieyenta at May 22, 2007 06:34 AM

Thank you for sharing the secret....
Good Yom Tov. Only simchas!
Mordechai

Posted by: Mordechai (Morty) Schiller [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 08:47 AM

Dear Robert and Karen,

My sincerest thank you for your extraordinary effort and example in publishing a truly splendid Serapahic Secret.

I received my inspiration to write my blog and book from your painfully poignant musings about Ariel, Z'TL. I always felt, perhaps selfishly, that you were speaking directly to me when reading the poetry of your prose about your beloved son.

I'll end here before becoming maudlin and wish you snd yours a joyous "z'man matan Torasenu."

'Ch(u)g Shavuos Sameach.

I remain,

Very Sincerely yours,

Alan D. Busch

Posted by: alan at May 22, 2007 09:07 AM

Soccer Dad:

It is a nechama to know that our blog has helped others. Thanks so much for your support and friendship. Have a good Yuntif.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 09:36 AM

Orieyenta:

We just discovered you and your wonderful blog through Pearl. You have the very best name in the Jewish blogosphere. Thanks so much for your kind words, and mazal tov on your upcoming wedding.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 09:43 AM

Mordechai:

Thanks so much for everything. Have a lovely Yuntif.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 09:46 AM

Alan:

What can we say to you and yours? We have never met face to face— yet we know one another very well. Your blog and your book are worthy memorials for your beloved son.

May both our children have aliyas in the Beis Midrash L'emala on this z'man matan Toratenu.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 09:51 AM

This blog is proof that the phrase: "May his/her memory be a blessing" is not necessarily an empty statement. It can be done, and it has. I have felt blessed that Ariel's memory created this site and much, much more.

Posted by: Jake at May 22, 2007 11:12 AM

I know you are proud of who Ariel z'l was and what he did...but I would imagine he would be proud of what you have continued on in his memory. How fitting that the 3rd anniversary is near z'man matan torateinu, as you are part of that mesora, as was...and in the memorial lecture and blog and other things, continues to be.

Have a wonderful Chag v'sameach.

Posted by: Maurice at May 22, 2007 12:45 PM

Jake:

We are blessed with you and Mrs. Jake's wonderful friendship. Chag sameach.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 12:48 PM

Maurice:

Yes, we are very proud of Ariel ZT'L—and of our girlses who are no less amazing people and carry on the mesora.

I look forward to meeting you face to face very soon.

Chag sameach.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 22, 2007 12:52 PM

Robert,
Every time I visit Seraphic Secret or think about something I’ve learned from you and your readers (which is often), Ariel is there, mingling with my thoughts. This blog has been important to me and others in many ways. Congratulations on your third anniversary.

Posted by: David at May 23, 2007 08:45 AM

David:

Such kind words, such lovely thoughts. Thanks so much for your friendship.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 24, 2007 10:56 PM

because of you, Robert, I discovered I had something of my own to say. I am not around much anymore, but I will always appreciate you and Karen for sharing your hearts so honestly.

Posted by: cruisin-mom at May 26, 2007 12:13 PM

I echo the sentiments of all the other commenters. May you blog in joy and good health "ad meah v'esrim" and beyond.

Posted by: kishke at May 26, 2007 09:15 PM

Cruisin' Mom:

Good to hear from you again. We have always been proud that we were the inspiration for your blog.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 27, 2007 10:54 AM

Kishke:

Thanks so much for the b'racha—and beyond.

Posted by: Robert J. Avrech [TypeKey Profile Page] at May 27, 2007 10:56 AM

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